Cold Hearted, That’s what my friend called me when i was tellin him not to waste time on that bitch. He didn't understand, He knows That he can't get her, but still he thinks he can't live w/o her.they don't even have a relationship . He can get any other girl if he likes. Means he has a friend in his office who is ready to Love him like hell , But he wants to remain with his old girl. I guess he just wants to spend time with her, May be he likes her company but then everyone likes a company of a girl. One thing I m not able to understand is That he can get that company and warmth from any other girl. Then why is he fixed with her. Means last thing i know if they even get into a relationship they will break up and then there will be again a broken heart.
Neither I m writing this to tell u my friend's tale nor for the reason that he called me an asshole. I m writing this because i never have been able to answer this question that how can a guy fall so much in love with a girl that he doesn't sees the logistics or the high probability of pain he is going to have after the breakup, which is an evitable fact.
Now i m a guy who hasn't fallen in love, i have been linked to two girls but i haven't felt what love is .I don't have any grudges against the girls with whom i have been linked up in past. Means c'mon i enjoyed it, they enjoyed, fun got over and then we went on with our seperate lives. Ok i didn't have these ideolgies when i was in school, yes my heart also was broken once by a girl. I also felt bad and acted like some freakin Devdas, but then i learn't from my past and now for the past one year i have been followin these ideolgies. I don't hate that girl or any other girl. I don't even hate love, nor have any personal grudges with relationships .I m also not the guy who will say that I don't believe in true love. I believe in true love, and i believe that there is some one for everyone and i m waitin for my so called other half. Now tell me is it still justified that people call me cold hearted.
its sad the whole world can be classified into two - one who are in love and the other who have suffered a break up and they are actin like some freakin aashiq or somethin (esp with boys). For example in orkut if u search for community which talks about love u will find 2 type of communties - One made by a lover (which is good), and the other by ones who hate love because someone who didn't love them left them. They like my friend are just destroyin their lives. Fine he or she left u, this doesn't mean that u start hating love. That person didn't even loved u, that is why he or she left u. U should accept it and sooner u do better it is. What i feel that love is never one sided? it is always from both the sides. If a side has left the other side, then it clearly shows that love was never there and both the sides were actually going through infatuation. I write this To people who have suffered in love, coz i can understand what they are goin thru all i want to say that u should start livin
next time when i m gonna meet my friend i will again pursue him to think about his life.
I think so it is stupid for guys and galz to love someone who doesn't love them, I think so it is waste of time. They can utilise that time in a more better way. I believe that being a devdas is the worst u can ever be.
Call Me cold hearted asshole but then this is what i am.
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